Ministry Modules seek to help ministry workers and motivated church members understand and navigate emotional reactivity in themselves and in their relationship systems.

Each module introduces core concepts of Bowen Family Systems Theory and applies them to common ministry challenges, with time for participants to discuss the ideas and reflect on application in their contexts.

They aim to increase understanding of the predictable ways people behave in relationships, and to consider how to respond thoughtfully in ways that foster clarity, understanding, and loving relationships.

Who are these modules for?

Modules are designed for all Christians wanting to understand and grow in emotional maturity, with a particular emphasis on serving in ministry contexts: senior pastors, assistant ministers, school and hospital chaplains, youth and children’s workers, ministry wives, lay leaders, or staff in Christian organisations navigating the relational complexities.

Will the sessions be recorded?

The Systems in Ministry Modules prioritise live learning as the primary way for participants to engage with the material being presented and discussed. This reflects a principle from systems theory: that each individual develops their own thinking and clarity about an issue while remaining in live contact with other people and their ideas and opinions, which may sometimes be similar but are often different.

The presentation section (first 20-30 minutes) of the Module will be recorded via ZOOM for the purposes of those unexpectedly absent as a resource to their learning and can be provided upon request. This recording may also be used for future FSI training.

Structure:

Each Ministry Module includes pre-reading and three 1.5-hour online reading + discussion groups.

Cost 

$167 per module, or $497 for all four (best value)

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Are refunds available?

We do not generally provide refunds for change of mind. We anticipate that the flexible nature of online learning means that the Ministry Modules can be accommodated within your schedule.

However, the FSI understands that, for reasons out of your control, you may no longer be able to participate. Requests for refunds are handled on a case by case basis.

If you wish to request a refund, please contact info@thefsi.com.au before your Ministry Module begins. If processed, refunds will be minus an administrative fee (as we are charged by our platforms).

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MODULE 1 – TRIANGLES: Seeing and navigating tension in the system

Why do relationship tensions often expand to involve other people? What are your options when you feel drawn to take sides, resolve someone else’s conflict or offer advice about a third person?

Content

Murray Bowen described a triangle—a three-person relationship system—as the building block of larger emotional systems. As tension rises, it can shift between relationships and spread through interlocking triangles. This module explores how these patterns operate in congregations, leadership groups and staff teams, and what it looks like to manage your own involvement responsibly.

Outcomes

Through teaching and discussion, you will have opportunities to:

• Recognise triangles and notice how tension moves between relationships.
• Identify the pressures that draw you into taking sides or taking responsibility for others.
• Consider ways to stay connected while responding more thoughtfully and less reactively.

Time: Mondays, 11:30 am–1 pm

Dates: 8 February | 22 February | 8 March 2027

Facilitator: Larissa Weston Olliffe

Larissa is a registered Psychologist and a Family Systems Ministry Coach and Supervisor who thrives in meeting and relating to people from all different backgrounds and cultures. Having grown up in a ministry family herself and now being in one again, Larissa knows first hand the complexities of relationship challenges in ministry.

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MODULE 2 – PASTORAL CARE THAT PROMOTES MATURITY

Can pastoral care be less reactive, more sustainable and more helpful for those you care for? When might our efforts to help make it harder for someone to take responsibility for themselves?

Content

This module explores over- and under-functioning: reciprocal relationship patterns in which one person increasingly takes responsibility while another takes less. We will consider how these patterns develop in pastoral care, what draws us into the helper role, and how our responses can support or limit another person’s capacity to address their own challenges.

Outcomes

Through teaching and discussion, you will have opportunities to:

• Recognise patterns of over- and under-functioning in pastoral relationships.
• Notice how your own discomfort, expectations or sense of responsibility influence the help you offer.
• Consider ways to offer care that supports another person’s thinking and responsibility while attending to your own.

Time: Thursdays, 12 noon–1:30 pm

Dates: 13 May | 27 May | 10 June 2027

Facilitator: Nicky Fortescue

Nicky holds a Graduate Certificate in Professional (Pastoral) Supervision and a Certificate in Family Systems Theory and Practice. She has actively participated in coaching and studying Bowen Family Systems Theory as applied to her life and ministry for almost two decades. Nicky has studied theology and has been actively involved in church ministry for over 30 years, teaching and studying the Bible in groups and with individuals, as well as being involved with children’s, women’s and music ministries.

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MODULE 3 – ANXIOUS TOGETHERNESS V UNITY IN CHRIST: giving space for difference whilst seeking “one mind”

How do we pursue unity without making agreement a condition of belonging? How can we teach truth and encourage Christian maturity while allowing people room to think, ask questions and work through differences?

Content

This module explores Bowen’s concepts of togetherness and individuality as a lens for considering these ministry questions. We will examine how the desire for approval, agreement or harmony can influence a group, and consider what it means to hold convictions and remain connected when others think differently.

Outcomes

Through teaching and discussion, you will have opportunities to:

• Recognise pressure to agree, conform or preserve harmony in ministry relationships.
• Notice your own responses to disagreement and the expectations of others.
• Consider ways to express your convictions clearly while making room for others to think and respond.

Time: Mondays, 11:30 am–1 pm

Dates: 9 August | 23 August | 6 September 2027

Facilitator: Matt Steele

Matt is a Bowen Family Systems Theory qualified coach and pastoral supervisor. Prior to studying Bowen Theory Matt served as an ordained Anglican minister, with around 15 years experience in pastoral ministry working in a variety of ministry roles in Sydney’s Inner West. 

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MODULE 4 – FAMILY OF ORIGIN: recognising and exploring its impact on your ministry

What did you learn in your family about handling disagreement, responding to distress or taking responsibility? How might those patterns influence your ministry relationships today?

Content

The family we grew up in shaped our sensitivities, expectations, and ways of relating. This module introduces Bowen’s thinking about patterns developed in the family of origin and their continuing influence in adult life. You will be invited to explore your own family relationships, recognise both strengths and difficulties, and consider how this understanding might inform your ministry.

Outcomes

Through teaching and discussion, you will have opportunities to:

• Begin identifying relationship patterns in your family.
• Notice connections between those patterns and your responses in ministry.
• Consider how to increase flexibility in ministry relationships.

Time: Tuesdays, 11 am–12:30 pm

Dates: 9 November | 23 November | 7 December 2027

Craig has over 20 years of pastoral ministry experience, most of that time as the lead pastor. Having studied at UNSW, MTC, CSU, FSI, Craig has qualifications in Theology, Leadership, Pastoral Supervision, Family Systems Theory, Management, and Coaching.

Places are limited; to confirm your place in the module please register.

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These Ministry Modules can also be packaged up for ministry staff team training with a group of 6+. Send us an enquiry if you are interested in systems training for your team.